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Other's Opinions Don't Matter!

Updated: Jun 14


For far too long, I was at the mercy of other people's opinions. Every decision I made was dictated only by my fear of what other's would think. I stayed stuck, I didn't allow myself to dream bigger, I was horrendously critical of myself, and I feared the judgement from others more than anything in the world.


What I realized is that by playing small and not living my truth, I wasn't serving others the way I've been called to serve. I wasn't making an impact in the way I'd always dreamed. Above all, I knew that I wasn't living my life for me. In the story of my life, I always gave someone else the pen.


No matter which path you choose, you are always going to have a hater or more. It's inevitable. Don't let that one cloud darken the light that you ARE. Other people's inability to see your worth doesn't make YOU less worthy.


No matter how outlandish your dream is, don't ever give it up. Stay in a relentless pursuit of that one thing you lay awake at night thinking about. Always know that you are MORE: more than a student, a wife, a mom. You were made for BIG THINGS, no matter how ordinary you feel.

Above all, never forget: What other people think of you is none of your business.



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