(Even With Wild Toddlers & Weird Lighting)

First, Breathe.

If you’ve ever tried wrangling toddlers, grandparents, and maybe even the dog for a “quick” family photo… you know it’s basically an Olympic sport. Deep breath. You’ve got this—and I’ve got you. My Charleston portraits are filled with emotion, fun, movement, and for me, storytelling. These tips will help you elevate your images and allow you to enjoy them for years to come. (Of course, if YOU want to be in the image, you can always give me a holler!!) If you are ready to learn how one professional does it, let's dive in:

Tip 1: Embrace the Chaos

Toddlers will wiggle. Dogs will bark. Someone will blink. That’s okay! The best family portraits aren’t about perfection, they’re about connection. Sometimes the “imperfect” photos (a little giggle, a kid pulling a silly face) become the favorites.

Tip 2: Lighting Is Everything

You don’t need a fancy studio at home to make good photos. Just find soft, natural light: near a big window, outside in the shade, or during golden hour. Avoid the harsh overheads and you’ll instantly elevate your pictures.

Tip 3: Keep It Short & Sweet

Kids have the attention span of… well, a squirrel. Don’t push for marathon sessions. A few short bursts of shooting time will give you way better results than forcing them to sit still for an hour.

✨ Book your self-love session today → Complimentary Consultation

Tip 4: Pick Outfits That Feel Good

Matchy-matchy is out. Comfortable, coordinated is in. Think color families (blues, neutrals, warm earth tones) instead of identical shirts. If your kids feel comfy, they’ll look relaxed—and that joy will shine through.

Bonus: Hire a Pro (Yes, I Know One 😉)

You can absolutely DIY family photos, but sometimes calling in a pro makes all the difference. I’ll wrangle the chaos, find the light, and capture those fleeting, authentic moments so you can just be in them.

P.S. Want to double your self-assurance starting right now? Pick one thing you’re grateful for today and tell yourself a quick story about it. Reliving the moment gives you an instant hit of joy—kind of like looking at your favorite photo.

Next week's blog is a doozie!! Here it is: The Magic of Printing: Why Your Photos Deserve a Wall, Not Just a Screen

📸 Arthur Ellis is a Charleston, SC portrait photographer who believes the best portraits are born from laughter, confidence, and connection. He creates timeless portraits while making the experience as unforgettable as the final images. He can be contacted through his website at: arthurellisphotography.com

#ConfidenceInPortraits

#CharlestonWomensPortraits

#PhotosThatEmpower

#ModernBeautySessions

#LegacyPortraitsCharleston

#EverydayGlamCharleston

#FeelSeenBeSeen